119: How to Lead When You’re “THE ONLY”

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What We Cover in This Episode:

    Being “the only” in the room, the only woman, the only woman of color, the youngest person, the only one who thinks differently can be both an honor and a heavy responsibility. In this episode, I share how to navigate that experience while still earning respect, making an impact, and opening doors for others to join you at the table.

    You’ll hear:

    • My personal journey of being “the only” from being born, my childhood to adulthood
    • The tug-of-war blending in with honoring yourself
    • 6 proven strategies to lead confidently as “the only” without burning bridges or betraying yourself.
    • How to be discerning about when to stay quiet, how to identify the right people to build relationships with and why you should take up space
    • Why your presence in the room isn’t just about you, it’s about representing voices that aren’t there yet.

    Whether you’re leading a corporate team, running your own business, or navigating high-stakes rooms, you’ll walk away with actionable tools to not just survive as “the only,” but to thrive and influence change.

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